What is Happiness?
By Melissa McStott
What is it that the world is searching for today? Achievement, self-worth, money, success? Perhaps it is all of these that we are searching for in hope that it will lead to one desired result…happiness- an eternal happiness that will exhilarate our hearts.
Our society has been trained to think we are entitled to a happiness that will “fulfill” our lives. So from there, our endless search for true happiness starts, yet unfortunately, many fail to ever truly capture it. We keep reaching and hoping. Maybe that next new car, tropical getaway, new account you attain, promotion you receive, or handbag you purchase will help you attain this sought-out feeling we call happiness. The painful truth is, the feeling we receive from these materialistic things is not the true eternal happiness that gives you inner peace and pleasure in your heart.
Maybe it is not that we are entitled to this happiness. Maybe we can’t even purchase this happiness, but instead, we need to earn it in other ways. We most definitely mixed this entire happiness thing up, for happiness is priceless in that it both lacks a price tag and is beyond any monetary value.
I was very fortunate to learn this lesson as a young child from someone I am so blessed to call my mother; she has made such an impact on my life in guiding me on my path to happiness. I was about 9 years old when I learned this valuable lesson. My mom would take me on shopping trips to the mall. After returning home, I would ecstatically try on all my new clothes prancing all around the house to show everyone the new additions to my wardrobe. That night I would go to bed exclaiming to my mom the excitement I felt about my new purchases. She would always tell me to notice how I felt the next morning after I felt this excitement. I never quite understood what she was getting at, but I definitely knew that this excitement was not as amplified the next morning, more importantly, the excitement didn’t even last till the end of that next day. I asked her one night why this happiness always seemed to fade and she smiled, excited to teach me a significant life-long lesson. “You see sweetie, it is not the purchases you make that will give you the true happiness that will stay in your heart forever, but it is the good you do for others that makes your heart really shine, never to fade.”
To this day I can not quite explain the feeling I get when I make a phone call to someone who is lonely, be-friend the lone-one, visit a sick loved one in the hospital, or make a difference in any way. Or maybe it is the feeling I get when I see others do these things. You see, the love in our hearts and the good we do for others is the only true thing we have to give when all is said and done. As we all know, our jobs, homes, and money can all be taken away from us. Today we need to spread the love in our hearts to attain this true eternal happiness that will make a difference in a world of turmoil.
Today both you and I need to pay it forward, and make a difference in a world that is truly starving for one!